♥ LUTHIEN,
Wednesday, September 1, 2010 1:32 AM


i always messed things up.
i hate it
u hate it
both of us hate it;
i know; i always 口是心非
and u knew it
we hate quarrelles;

B; im over thy moon when u say im ur the other half and u will always do things and consult me and we will do the deciding togther;and u will say no if i disapproved of anything. that was wad i told shumei just now.

i noe u spent a lot of effort and i feel it;i noe u put in alot into this relationship i appreciate and i love u too.i just hope we will not mis understand each other any more.
okay i noe im stupid i just went to google and google this

MISCOMMUNICATION


All of us miscommunicate at times. Reasons for it vary from each person and situation. But a few wrong presumptions that we make about communication hamper our prospects in the long-term. Here's how to best get the message across.


so i decide to do this:

HOW TO AVOID MISCOMMUNICATION

- Think before you speak. If you think about what you say before you speak, you have the chance to organize your thoughts, rehearse your words, evaluate the situation, and not say something stupid.
( SO THAT WHEN I SPEAK U WONT SAY IM A INDIAN SELLING ROTI PRATA CUX I WILL KEEP PENG WEI. AND I NOE U ALWAYS TELL ME TO THINK BEFORE I SPEAK ) =(

- Listen. If you don't listen to the other person, you are likely to end up miscommunicating. Good listening is often more important than whatever you say
.( IM SO GONNA LISTEN AND PAY ATTENTION TO WAD U SAY ! )

- Don't assume. This is the most common presumption people tend to make. And it is the most disastrous one as well. Unless you say something, you usually cannot be entirely sure the other person knows what you're thinking, feeling, or whatever.
( ALRIGHT I ADMIT . THIS IS MY FUCKING PROBLEM )

and of course i need to watch my tone. i dun understand myself too; but some how im not pek chek and im not angry budden my voice will just go high pitch and u thought that im shouting at u or throwing missy temper again; but im not !

well b. im ur lovely darling again. i promised ♥



QUEEN S

With love♥





im selfish;
im mean;
im jealousy;
im boring;
im SERENE;
EMAIL : msniuniurene@hotmail.com
B.

I never held you but i feel you You never spoke but i hear you I never knew you but i love you;


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